Gentleman in Training
When it comes to manners, I am old school.
I keep hoping for the day that I don't have to begin dinner with "napkin in your lapkin" or end dinner with "where does your plate go?"
These basic courtesies were literally drilled into my brain growing up about the constant importance of good graces. Is it wrong or dated to expect them in my 10-year-old son? This year, we have begun the book "50 Things Ever Young Gentleman Should Know" by John Bridges and Bryan Curtis. (there is also the girl version for young lady too). I have to say it is a hilarious read and a perfect tone for tween boys.
Here's a few examples:
On sports...
"A gentleman does not throw a fit when a call does not goes his way or when he loses."
On apologies...
"A gentleman who has offended another person says, 'I'm sorry.'"
My fav on hygiene...
"A gentleman puts on a clean shirt instead of smelling the armpits of a shirt to see if can wear it again."
It would be easy to blame technology or the media for ruining our kids, or the fact that this generation is different and doesn't understand the importance of good manners. I will set all that aside and be persistent anyways. Manners are important and tell a lot about the kind of character our kids have. Even if I have to say "napkin in the lapkin" for 365 days straight, one day I know he will get it.
And I know that day, Emily Post will smile. So will I.
Written by Cara McLauchlan, whose blog, Joy Goggles, celebrates the simple joys of life. It’s a chance to look at our days through “Joy Goggles” and discover the beauty in ordinary.
When it comes to manners, I am old school.
I keep hoping for the day that I don't have to begin dinner with "napkin in your lapkin" or end dinner with "where does your plate go?"
These basic courtesies were literally drilled into my brain growing up about the constant importance of good graces. Is it wrong or dated to expect them in my 10-year-old son? This year, we have begun the book "50 Things Ever Young Gentleman Should Know" by John Bridges and Bryan Curtis. (there is also the girl version for young lady too). I have to say it is a hilarious read and a perfect tone for tween boys.
Here's a few examples:
On sports...
"A gentleman does not throw a fit when a call does not goes his way or when he loses."
On apologies...
"A gentleman who has offended another person says, 'I'm sorry.'"
My fav on hygiene...
"A gentleman puts on a clean shirt instead of smelling the armpits of a shirt to see if can wear it again."
It would be easy to blame technology or the media for ruining our kids, or the fact that this generation is different and doesn't understand the importance of good manners. I will set all that aside and be persistent anyways. Manners are important and tell a lot about the kind of character our kids have. Even if I have to say "napkin in the lapkin" for 365 days straight, one day I know he will get it.
And I know that day, Emily Post will smile. So will I.
Written by Cara McLauchlan, whose blog, Joy Goggles, celebrates the simple joys of life. It’s a chance to look at our days through “Joy Goggles” and discover the beauty in ordinary.
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