Quit the Nagging: Help Kids Learn Through Natural Consequences

How to help children learn responsibility for their own actions, sans yelling, grounding and other parental power plays.


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Tired of nagging, yelling and power struggles? It might be time for a new discipline approach. Natural consequences, part of the “positive discipline” movement that deemphasizes threats, withholding privileges and other punitive discipline measures, can help promote cooperation and build accountability. A natural consequence is one that happens as a result of a child’s own actions, without the parent’s involvement, such as a child refuses a coat, so he feels cold on his walk to school. These types of consequences can help children learn responsibility for their own actions, sans yelling, grounding and other parental power plays. Interested? Read on for age-by-age guidance.  


Ages 0-5

Time In

Time-out is a time-honored discipline method for tots dating back decades. Parents are often advised to correct bad behavior by dishing out one minute of time-out per year of age; so a 2-year-old who hits would get two minutes in a time-out chair. But does “time out” fit into a natural consequence model? Raelee Peirce, a certified Simplicity Parenting coach and instructor in Chapel Hill, says no.

“Time-out is not developmentally appropriate for this age. It may increase tension between the parent and the child.” Parents can still guide behavior and learning without resorting to time-out, she says.

When a toddler is destructive or uncooperative, remain calm to model self-control, aid your child in corrective action like cleaning up a mess or apologizing to a friend they’ve hurt, and remove your child from the activity if needed, while staying close, says Peirce.

“Proximity to parents is important to children from 1-3 years old, as this can be a time of heightened separation anxiety.”


Ages 6-12

School Rules

Natural consequences can help kids learn to manage increasing academic workloads in grade school, but only if parents allow them to play out. There’s a strong temptation for parents to hover and micromanage kids’ schoolwork, particularly during the elementary years when kids are still learning to manage it themselves. But doing so can rob children of the chance to learn responsibility and self-motivation early on in their academic career, says parenting and relationship expert Thomas Gagliano, bestselling author of “The Problem Was Me.

“Parents need to understand that they can’t control their children’s behavior,” he says. “Rather, they need to supply their children with the tools to control their own behavior.”

For schoolwork, that could mean hanging a large calendar with schoolwork deadlines where your child can see it, and creating space and time for daily schoolwork, then allowing your child to take responsibly for completing and submitting her own work. Turning in an occasional late assignment or forgetting a project at home are minor setbacks with major learning value that can pay off down the road.


Ages 13-18

Respect and Connect

During the teen years, teen-parent tensions can flare up, leading parents to resort to sweeping disciplinary action — grounding, removing driving privileges and/or taking a teen’s phone. These measures may seem warranted, but they can backfire by reinforcing tension and distrust between parents and teens, Peirce says.

“Teens have limited big-picture capabilities, so mistakes are unavoidable. Asserting your contrived power by wielding a big sword of control will only stir tensions in your relationship and erode at your foundation of trust.”

A better approach to guiding teen growth: Tune in to their problems.

“The optimal approach to parenting teens is to stay connected,” Peirce says. “Seek first to understand, then to be understood. Listen to a favorite song they have with them; tune into their favorite radio station when they ride with you, text with them.”

Teens who feel connected to their parents are more likely to seek out your support and less likely to lash out — naturally.


Malia Jacobson is an award-winning health and parenting journalist and mom of three. Her latest book is “Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades.”

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Contact Name: Will Howell

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Chaia introduces young children to music, rhythm, and musical notation in a lively way. Children will sing, dance, and smile along with Chaia May and her cast of characters! Explore the range of...

Cost: 0

Where:
Online at your Home
Durham, NC  27713


Sponsor: ActivityHero
Telephone: 800-437-6125
Contact Name: Mabelle Lim
Website »

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Sign up for a Raleigh scavenger hunt and put on your best Nick Cage impression as you seek out the national treasures hidden in Raleigh. Via an app, be guided through the cultural, historical,...

Cost: See website for fees

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
500 S. Salisbury St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: LetsRoam!
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: LetsRoam!
Website »

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Get your family together and go on a scavenger hunt you can do from the comfort of your car.

Cost: FREE

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
Raleigh, NC


Sponsor: Search in the City
Contact Name: Christine
Website »

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Free manners lessons hosted by the founder of The Swann School of Protocol Elaine Swann. In this course your child will learn the 3 Core Values. They will identify when to use them at home, at...

Cost: 0

Where:
Online at your Home
-
Durham, NC  27713
View map »


Sponsor: ActivityHero
Telephone: 800-437-6125
Contact Name: Mabelle Lim
Website »

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We invite all Triangle youth between the ages of 8 thru 17 with a sincere interest in the Performance Art of Magic to join Magic Youth Raleigh! This youth program teaches magic history and theory,...

Cost: $35 per Student

Where:
New Horizons Fellowship
820 E. Williams St.
Apex, NC  27502
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Sponsor: The International Brotherhood of Magicians
Contact Name: Roger Way
Website »

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HEY YOU GUYS ITS THAT TIME AGAIN NLDC IS READY TO HAVE AN AWESOME SUMMER WITH YOU COME REGISTER FOR SOMETHING FUN, LEARNING EXPERIENCE AND REASONABLE IN PRICE...... HEY DON'T FORGET THIS INCLUDES...

Cost: $30 (Reg)-$120(weekly)

Where:
No Limitz Dance Company Studio
3326 Durham Chapel Hill Blvd Suite C-130
Durham , NC  27707
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Telephone: 919-391-0022
Contact Name: Ms. Mo Lee
Website »

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Join the Raleigh Boychoir Today! Raleigh Boychoir is accepting new online placements now for the 2020-2021 season. We aim to help all boys to Sing, Transform, and Lead! For more info and to...

Cost: 0.00

Where:
Virtual
1329 Ridge Rd
Raleigh, NC  27609
View map »


Sponsor: Raleigh Boychoir
Telephone: 919-881-9259
Contact Name: Jeremy Tucker
Website »

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Animal Park (AP) Enrichment week teaches students about how here at the Animal Park we work to keep our animal residents stimulated, active, and happy.  Each day students will explore ways that...

Cost: $200

Where:
The Animal Park at the Conservators Center
676 E Hughes Mill Rd
Burlington, NC  27217
View map »


Sponsor: The Animal Park at the Conservators Center
Telephone: 336-421-0883
Contact Name: Elise Gammon
Website »

More information

Would you like for your teen to get out into the community, have fun with his peers, and further develop his social skills all at the same time? Wynns Family Psychology is pleased to offer an...

Cost: 496

Where:
Wynns Family Psychology
130 Preston Executive Dr #202
Wilmington, NC  28412
View map »


Sponsor: Wynns Family Psychology
Telephone: 919-467-7777
Contact Name: Kristen Wynns

More information

Class Description Daily camp from 9-10am, August 3rd-7th. Prior registration and payment required. Your camper will take a journey across the globe during Cultural Camp. This camp is design...

Cost: $35

Where:
Online
, NC


Sponsor: Durham Arts Council
Telephone: 919-560-2726
Website »

More information

The countdown is on for the Wake Pre-K Curbside Application Event. Apply for Pre-K without leaving your car! Will your child be four by August 31st? Well get them into a year of life-changing...

Cost: FREE

Where:
Wake County Smart Start
4901 Waters Edge Dr.
Raleigh, NC  27606
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Sponsor: Wake County Smart Start
Telephone: 919-723-9282
Contact Name: Elizabeth Weichel
Website »

More information

https://superkidscience.com/programs-and-class/enrichment-with-finn/ A fun summer enrichment program for rising 6th graders.

Cost: 150

Where:
140 Sudano Court
140 Sudano Court
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Super Kid Science
Telephone: 919-995-3477
Contact Name: Marilyn Jesrani
Website »

More information

Class Description Prior registration and payment required. Daily camp from 9am-12pm, August 3rd-7th. Your camper will take a journey across the globe during Cultural Camp. Campers will learn about...

Cost: $80

Where:
Online
Durham, NC


Sponsor: Durham Arts Council
Telephone: 919-560-2726
Website »

More information

https://superkidscience.com/programs-and-class/enrichment-with-finn/ A fun summer enrichment program for rising 6th graders.

Cost: 150

Where:
140 Sudano Court
140 Sudano Court
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Super Kid Science
Telephone: 919-995-3477
Contact Name: Marilyn Jesrani
Website »

More information

Amongst the ancient oak trees is the heart of Raleigh. We'll help you see the forest for the trees and all its magic splendor. Tourist, local, or new to town, this is a lively small group activity...

Cost: $11

Where:
Downtown
500 S Salisbury St
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: Let's Roam
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: Kelly
Website »

More information

This summer, do you want your middle schooler to learn how to make and keep new friends? Would you like to enhance her selfconfidence? Do you want him to learn how to handle conflicts peacefully?...

Cost: $450 ($250 non refundable deposit)

Where:
Cary
130 Preston Executive Dr.
Suite 202
Cary, NC  27513
View map »


Telephone: 919-467-7777
Contact Name: Kristen Wynns
Website »

More information

Kindermusik is a research-based early childhood curriculum that includes 45-minute classroom lessons with materials and resources that encourages parental involvement . Research has linked...

Cost: $70/month

Where:
Hope Community Building
2080 E Williams St
Hope Community Building, Fuquay Varina Room
Apex/Holly Springs, NC  27539
View map »


Telephone: 191-990-25432
Contact Name: Leigh Hamm
Website »

More information

With the responsibility of social distancing, many parents are scrambling to find safe ways to keep their children occupied this summer. To meet this need, Pet Helpers is announcing their...

Cost: $75

Where:
Virtual
, NC


Sponsor: Pet Helpers
Telephone: 843-795-1110
Contact Name: Will Howell

More information

For parents worried about their children and returning to school amidst COVID-19 concerns, join us on Thursday, August 6th at 11 am for our virtual presentation Back to School: COVID-19 and...

Cost: Free

Where:
Zoom Virtual Webinar
, NC


Sponsor: Rosen Law Firm
Telephone: 919-256-1552
Contact Name: Charles MacCall
Website »

More information

Sign up for a Raleigh scavenger hunt and put on your best Nick Cage impression as you seek out the national treasures hidden in Raleigh. Via an app, be guided through the cultural, historical,...

Cost: See website for fees

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
500 S. Salisbury St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: LetsRoam!
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: LetsRoam!
Website »

More information

Get your family together and go on a scavenger hunt you can do from the comfort of your car.

Cost: FREE

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
Raleigh, NC


Sponsor: Search in the City
Contact Name: Christine
Website »

More information

Free manners lessons hosted by the founder of The Swann School of Protocol Elaine Swann. In this course your child will learn the 3 Core Values. They will identify when to use them at home, at...

Cost: 0

Where:
Online at your Home
-
Durham, NC  27713
View map »


Sponsor: ActivityHero
Telephone: 800-437-6125
Contact Name: Mabelle Lim
Website »

More information

In each class we'll read a book, observe a work of art, explore a new art technique, and create our own work of art! These classes are focused on the process of art-making and exploration of new...

Cost: $80/6-weeks, $15/per class

Where:
Zoom
, NC


Contact Name: Natalia Torres del Valle
Website »

More information

We invite all Triangle youth between the ages of 8 thru 17 with a sincere interest in the Performance Art of Magic to join Magic Youth Raleigh! This youth program teaches magic history and theory,...

Cost: $35 per Student

Where:
New Horizons Fellowship
820 E. Williams St.
Apex, NC  27502
View map »


Sponsor: The International Brotherhood of Magicians
Contact Name: Roger Way
Website »

More information

Thursday evenings are for music and outdoor adventure at the USNWC, and the River Jam Run is a great way to enjoy both. Kick off the evening with 1.5 mile, 3 mile, or 6 mile group run through our...

Cost: $6

Where:
USNWC
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy
Charlotte, NC  28214
View map »


Sponsor: USNWC
Telephone: 704-391-3900
Contact Name: Race Director
Website »

More information

River Jam at the U.S. National Whitewater Center brings together live musical performances throughout the year to a one-of-a-kind outdoor venue, right in the middle of the world’s largest...

Cost: $6

Where:
USNWC
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy
Charlotte, NC  28214
View map »


Sponsor: USNWC
Telephone: 704-391-3900
Contact Name: Jenny Hill
Website »

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HEY YOU GUYS ITS THAT TIME AGAIN NLDC IS READY TO HAVE AN AWESOME SUMMER WITH YOU COME REGISTER FOR SOMETHING FUN, LEARNING EXPERIENCE AND REASONABLE IN PRICE...... HEY DON'T FORGET THIS INCLUDES...

Cost: $30 (Reg)-$120(weekly)

Where:
No Limitz Dance Company Studio
3326 Durham Chapel Hill Blvd Suite C-130
Durham , NC  27707
View map »


Telephone: 919-391-0022
Contact Name: Ms. Mo Lee
Website »

More information

Forget tourist-filled museums, make your own memories with a photo scavenger hunt tour in Raleigh! On a Let’s Roam scavenger hunt, you and your team will work together to wander throughout...

Cost: $11

Where:
500 S Salisbury St
raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: Let's Roam
Website »

More information

Join the Raleigh Boychoir Today! Raleigh Boychoir is accepting new online placements now for the 2020-2021 season. We aim to help all boys to Sing, Transform, and Lead! For more info and to...

Cost: 0.00

Where:
Virtual
1329 Ridge Rd
Raleigh, NC  27609
View map »


Sponsor: Raleigh Boychoir
Telephone: 919-881-9259
Contact Name: Jeremy Tucker
Website »

More information

Amongst the ancient oak trees is the heart of Raleigh. We'll help you see the forest for the trees and all its magic splendor. Tourist, local, or new to town, this is a lively small group activity...

Cost: $11

Where:
Downtown
500 S Salisbury St
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: Let's Roam
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: Kelly
Website »

More information

Would you like for your teen to get out into the community, have fun with his peers, and further develop his social skills all at the same time? Wynns Family Psychology is pleased to offer an...

Cost: 496

Where:
Wynns Family Psychology
130 Preston Executive Dr #202
Wilmington, NC  28412
View map »


Sponsor: Wynns Family Psychology
Telephone: 919-467-7777
Contact Name: Kristen Wynns

More information

Class Description Daily camp from 9-10am, August 3rd-7th. Prior registration and payment required. Your camper will take a journey across the globe during Cultural Camp. This camp is design...

Cost: $35

Where:
Online
, NC


Sponsor: Durham Arts Council
Telephone: 919-560-2726
Website »

More information

This summer, do you want your middle schooler to learn how to make and keep new friends? Would you like to enhance her selfconfidence? Do you want him to learn how to handle conflicts peacefully?...

Cost: $450 ($250 non refundable deposit)

Where:
Cary
130 Preston Executive Dr.
Suite 202
Cary, NC  27513
View map »


Telephone: 919-467-7777
Contact Name: Kristen Wynns
Website »

More information

Animal Park (AP) Enrichment week teaches students about how here at the Animal Park we work to keep our animal residents stimulated, active, and happy.  Each day students will explore ways that...

Cost: $200

Where:
The Animal Park at the Conservators Center
676 E Hughes Mill Rd
Burlington, NC  27217
View map »


Sponsor: The Animal Park at the Conservators Center
Telephone: 336-421-0883
Contact Name: Elise Gammon
Website »

More information

https://superkidscience.com/programs-and-class/enrichment-with-finn/ A fun summer enrichment program for rising 6th graders.

Cost: 150

Where:
140 Sudano Court
140 Sudano Court
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Super Kid Science
Telephone: 919-995-3477
Contact Name: Marilyn Jesrani
Website »

More information

https://superkidscience.com/programs-and-class/enrichment-with-finn/ A fun summer enrichment program for rising 6th graders.

Cost: 150

Where:
140 Sudano Court
140 Sudano Court
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Super Kid Science
Telephone: 919-995-3477
Contact Name: Marilyn Jesrani
Website »

More information

Class Description Prior registration and payment required. Daily camp from 9am-12pm, August 3rd-7th. Your camper will take a journey across the globe during Cultural Camp. Campers will learn about...

Cost: $80

Where:
Online
Durham, NC


Sponsor: Durham Arts Council
Telephone: 919-560-2726
Website »

More information

With the responsibility of social distancing, many parents are scrambling to find safe ways to keep their children occupied this summer. To meet this need, Pet Helpers is announcing their...

Cost: $75

Where:
Virtual
, NC


Sponsor: Pet Helpers
Telephone: 843-795-1110
Contact Name: Will Howell

More information

Kindermusik is a research-based early childhood curriculum that includes 45-minute classroom lessons with materials and resources that encourages parental involvement . Research has linked...

Cost: $70/month

Where:
Hope Community Building
2080 E Williams St
Hope Community Building, Fuquay Varina Room
Apex/Holly Springs, NC  27539
View map »


Telephone: 191-990-25432
Contact Name: Leigh Hamm
Website »

More information

Get your family together and go on a scavenger hunt you can do from the comfort of your car.

Cost: FREE

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
Raleigh, NC


Sponsor: Search in the City
Contact Name: Christine
Website »

More information

Sign up for a Raleigh scavenger hunt and put on your best Nick Cage impression as you seek out the national treasures hidden in Raleigh. Via an app, be guided through the cultural, historical,...

Cost: See website for fees

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
500 S. Salisbury St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: LetsRoam!
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: LetsRoam!
Website »

More information

Free manners lessons hosted by the founder of The Swann School of Protocol Elaine Swann. In this course your child will learn the 3 Core Values. They will identify when to use them at home, at...

Cost: 0

Where:
Online at your Home
-
Durham, NC  27713
View map »


Sponsor: ActivityHero
Telephone: 800-437-6125
Contact Name: Mabelle Lim
Website »

More information

We invite all Triangle youth between the ages of 8 thru 17 with a sincere interest in the Performance Art of Magic to join Magic Youth Raleigh! This youth program teaches magic history and theory,...

Cost: $35 per Student

Where:
New Horizons Fellowship
820 E. Williams St.
Apex, NC  27502
View map »


Sponsor: The International Brotherhood of Magicians
Contact Name: Roger Way
Website »

More information

River Jam at the U.S. National Whitewater Center brings together live musical performances throughout the year to a one-of-a-kind outdoor venue, right in the middle of the world’s largest...

Cost: $6

Where:
USNWC
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy
Charlotte, NC  28214
View map »


Sponsor: USNWC
Telephone: 704-391-3900
Contact Name: Jenny Hill
Website »

More information

Show More...
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Forget tourist-filled museums, make your own memories with a photo scavenger hunt tour in Raleigh! On a Let’s Roam scavenger hunt, you and your team will work together to wander throughout...

Cost: $11

Where:
500 S Salisbury St
raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: Let's Roam
Website »

More information

Join the Raleigh Boychoir Today! Raleigh Boychoir is accepting new online placements now for the 2020-2021 season. We aim to help all boys to Sing, Transform, and Lead! For more info and to...

Cost: 0.00

Where:
Virtual
1329 Ridge Rd
Raleigh, NC  27609
View map »


Sponsor: Raleigh Boychoir
Telephone: 919-881-9259
Contact Name: Jeremy Tucker
Website »

More information

Farmers markets are essential to the livelihood of farmers and food producers and are exempt from the Governor's Stay at Home Order (page 6). Farmers markets offer an efficient way for residents to...

Cost: free

Where:
Holly Springs Cultural Center
300 W. Ballentine St.
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Farmers Market Coordinator
Telephone: 919-567-4010
Website »

More information

PARENTS JOIN OUR DHHS APPROVEDCPR/AED & First Aid Certification ClassesFoster parents are required to be CPR & First Aid certified. Parents, bring your child to class with you. Children 10 years...

Cost: 50-80

Where:
Holly Springs, NC
1001 Silverstone Way
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Save A Life Now Training Center LLC
Telephone: 919-215-6942
Contact Name: Valentina Cordoba
Website »

More information

https://superkidscience.com/programs-and-class/enrichment-with-finn/ A fun summer enrichment program for rising 6th graders.

Cost: 150

Where:
140 Sudano Court
140 Sudano Court
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Super Kid Science
Telephone: 919-995-3477
Contact Name: Marilyn Jesrani
Website »

More information

https://superkidscience.com/programs-and-class/enrichment-with-finn/ A fun summer enrichment program for rising 6th graders.

Cost: 150

Where:
140 Sudano Court
140 Sudano Court
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Super Kid Science
Telephone: 919-995-3477
Contact Name: Marilyn Jesrani
Website »

More information

PARENTS JOIN OUR DHHS APPROVEDCPR/AED & First Aid Certification ClassesFoster parents are required to be CPR & First Aid certified. Must register in advance. Space is limited. Parents, bring your...

Cost: 50-80

Where:
Holly Springs, NC
1001 Silverstone Way
Holly Springs, NC  27540
View map »


Sponsor: Save A Life Now Training Center LLC
Telephone: 919-215-6942
Contact Name: Valentina Cordoba
Website »

More information

Amongst the ancient oak trees is the heart of Raleigh. We'll help you see the forest for the trees and all its magic splendor. Tourist, local, or new to town, this is a lively small group activity...

Cost: $11

Where:
Downtown
500 S Salisbury St
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: Let's Roam
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: Kelly
Website »

More information

Kindermusik is a research-based early childhood curriculum that includes 45-minute classroom lessons with materials and resources that encourages parental involvement . Research has linked...

Cost: $70/month

Where:
Hope Community Building
2080 E Williams St
Hope Community Building, Fuquay Varina Room
Apex/Holly Springs, NC  27539
View map »


Telephone: 191-990-25432
Contact Name: Leigh Hamm
Website »

More information

Sign up for a Raleigh scavenger hunt and put on your best Nick Cage impression as you seek out the national treasures hidden in Raleigh. Via an app, be guided through the cultural, historical,...

Cost: See website for fees

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
500 S. Salisbury St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Sponsor: LetsRoam!
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: LetsRoam!
Website »

More information

Get your family together and go on a scavenger hunt you can do from the comfort of your car.

Cost: FREE

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
Raleigh, NC


Sponsor: Search in the City
Contact Name: Christine
Website »

More information

Free manners lessons hosted by the founder of The Swann School of Protocol Elaine Swann. In this course your child will learn the 3 Core Values. They will identify when to use them at home, at...

Cost: 0

Where:
Online at your Home
-
Durham, NC  27713
View map »


Sponsor: ActivityHero
Telephone: 800-437-6125
Contact Name: Mabelle Lim
Website »

More information

We invite all Triangle youth between the ages of 8 thru 17 with a sincere interest in the Performance Art of Magic to join Magic Youth Raleigh! This youth program teaches magic history and theory,...

Cost: $35 per Student

Where:
New Horizons Fellowship
820 E. Williams St.
Apex, NC  27502
View map »


Sponsor: The International Brotherhood of Magicians
Contact Name: Roger Way
Website »

More information

River Jam at the U.S. National Whitewater Center brings together live musical performances throughout the year to a one-of-a-kind outdoor venue, right in the middle of the world’s largest...

Cost: $6

Where:
USNWC
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy
Charlotte, NC  28214
View map »


Sponsor: USNWC
Telephone: 704-391-3900
Contact Name: Jenny Hill
Website »

More information

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