Reason Number 237 Why I Haven't Written Thank You Notes Yet

A quiet morning with the siren song of "me time" gets canceled.


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Photo courtesy of Lauren Bell Isaacs

As we turned the corner of our lane I said to my six-month-old in the back seat, "Well, your sister is at day camp for the next couple hours. Should we tackle those long overdue thank you notes for your gifts?" I pulled into the driveway and saw my neighbor's two young cats lounging in our courtyard. "Well, hello there, ladies!" I said enthusiastically, as I got got out of the car feeling energized at the prospect of finally being able to cross something off my list. Schedules were finally falling into place and I felt like we were out of the woods having just recovered from a family-wide, 20-day bout of the Summer Crud.

My voice sank as I saw another little brown creature also lying on her side that I had not originally accounted for. Squirrel? Not fluffy enough. Chipmunk? Too large. It dawned on me in that moment that the mystery hole in our courtyard garden belong to a rabbit and there she was — alive but attacked — unable to move either by injury or situation. I thought, "There go the thank you notes," knowing full well how this morning would pan out.

I got the baby out of the car, thanked my stars that my toddler had not seen this "circle of life" carnage, shooed the cats away and headed inside where I began to Google "injured wildlife." My own house cat came in off the screened-in porch, seemingly oblivious to the scuffle that had surely occurred within his eyesight. A couple phone calls later I was on with a rehabber named Mary who recommended that I call Animal Emergency Hospital and Urgent Care in Raleigh who would see the bunny — and at no charge. Tired baby on hip, phone lodged between cheek and shoulder and with pencil in hand I wrote the number down. Mary signed off with, "Thank you for caring." It shocked me. I'm still not able to put into words why.

I got the emergency hospital on the line and headed back outside with Maggie softly whining on my hip. One of the cats was still circling the bunny like a land shark. I was fielding directions on how to get the bunny to the hospital and trying to shoo her at the same time. Armed with a plan, I headed inside and put Maggie down in her bouncer with the promise of a nap soon.

I raided my toddler's toy doctor kit. I'm not going to lie. The Doc McStuffins theme song subconsciously started playing in my mind, but there was a method behind my madness. I pulled out some rubber gloves that my dentist had gifted her at my appointment last week. Of course, one snapped in half as I tried to pull it on my hand. Too much blowing this thing up like a balloon, I chalked it up to. I grabbed its mate and did my best to pull it over my clammy hand. How do doctors do this?

I ran around the house looking for a box as instructed by the vet. (Not the running part.) I checked the recycling pile. Drat, no Amazon deliveries recently. I found salvation in the pantry. Bingo: An empty applesauce pouch box from Costco. I ripped the top off, but I still needed a lid in case this bunny still had any jumping power. I ran upstairs and found a shoebox lid and headed back downstairs. I put a cushion of paper towels in the box and headed outside.

She was still in the same spot and the young cat was back and looking at her, "Why is this toy not moving?" The bunny, no larger than my hand, squealed when I picked her up and kicked her back legs as I placed her in the box. Thank goodness she still had some fight in her. She had several patches of fur missing and a questionable injury on her back leg. I brought the box up to my steps and placed it on the doormat with the promise of expert care soon. I headed back inside to gather my things and the baby. Of course, it was almost time for a bottle so I needed to gather those supplies as well. I apologized to the bunny, "Nothing goes quickly for a mother trying to get out the door. Especially this mother," and I asked for her to hang in there.

We took the 15-minute drive to the animal hospital and I peeked into the box at every stoplight. She was still with me. We pulled into the empty lot. I parked the car, rang the doorbell and a woman in scrubs joined me outside to collect the bunny as I filled out just a few lines of paperwork. As I wrote my number down I said, "Please call me either way and let me know how she does." Her face melted a bit and with a sympathetic tone she explained that she couldn't update me on the bunny's status because she's wildlife. I didn't question the policy beyond my initial thought, "What the #$*@?" She explained that I did the right thing and that the rabbit would be fixed up and rehabilitated with a volunteer or would be euthanized humanely if she was too far gone. I signed my name, and I started to cry. My instinct was to give the woman in scrubs a hug, but instead I said goodbye and got back in the car. I cried more before taking off and thought of the veterinary staff who was looking after the bunny pro bono, and I crossed my fingers that she would make it into the hands of a rehabilitation.

We headed back home and I said a little prayer as I walked over the place where I had picked the bunny up. Miraculously, we were home in time for Maggie's bottle. Afterward, I put Maggie back down in her crib and I also laid down. "Sleep when the baby sleeps," I thought. "The thank you notes can wait, yet, another day."

Update: Shortly after hitting the "save" button on this blog post, my toddler awoke from her nap by throwing up twice. And so there you have it. If you put it out into the universe that you have free time, Mom's Murphy's Law will take effect: Any free time that you have, will be filled with unexpected wildlife rescue. Anyone know if there's a stomach bug going around?

This post was not sponsored. All opinions and selections are my own.

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November 2017

Step back in time with a 19th-century costumed interpreter and watch the millstones at work grinding corn into meal. Registration encouraged online. Tickets available at the...

Cost: $5/adult, $3 ages 7-16. Free for ages 6 and younger

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Rd.
Raleigh, NC
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Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Celebrate the wonderful world of exotic animals and reptiles. Enjoy live specimens, presentations, raffles, vendors and much more. Purchase tickets online.  

Cost: $12 ages 13 and older, $5 ages 5-12.

Where:
N.C. State Fairgrounds, Kerr Scott Building
1025 Blue Ridge Rd.
Raleigh, NC
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Take part in a class that teaches individualized ways to foster motor development for your child. Learn about tummy time alternatives, best positions for your baby, how to help your child learn to...

Cost: $18

Where:
Open Arts
1222 Copeland Oaks Dr.
Morrisville, NC  27560
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Sponsor: Babies On The MOVE
Contact Name: Rebecca Quinones
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Join Mindful Families of Durham, a Buddhist-inspired spiritual community that supports area parents, caregivers, and their children in the practice of mindfulness and the understanding of the...

Cost: Free

Where:
Erwin Road
Durham, NC  27705
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Sponsor: Mindful Families of Durham
Contact Name: Adam, Laura, Josh, Sumi
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Open Arts
1222 Copeland Oaks Dr.
Morrisville, NC  27560
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Kicks off the holiday season with local art, music, food, and family activities at various locations in Durham’s historic downtown district. Presented by the Durham Arts Council with support...

Cost: Free and open to the public.

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Downtown Durham
120 Morris St.
Durham, NC  27701
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Sponsor: Durham Arts Council
Telephone: 919-560-2719
Contact Name: Susan Tierney
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Participants develop their naturalist skills and understanding of local nature. Ages 5-8 with parent. Register online.

Cost: $8/resident, $10/nonresident

Where:
Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs
2616 Kildaire Farm Rd.
Cary, NC
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Telephone: 919-387-5980
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Celebrate the natural world and where favorite Thanksgiving foods come from. Make a craft. All ages with adult. Register online.

Cost: $1/person

Where:
Crowder District Park
4709 Ten-Ten Rd.
Apex, NC
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Telephone: 919-662-2850
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Search the preserve for hidden holiday-themed clues and learn about native wild turkeys. Make a turkey decoration. Ages 5 and older with parent. Register online. Choose course code...

Cost: $1/person

Where:
Horseshoe Farm Nature Preserve
2900 Horse Shoe Farm Rd.
Wake Forest, NC
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Search for salamanders, owls and more. Ages 10-13. Register online.

Cost: $12/resident, $16/nonresident

Where:
Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs
2616 Kildaire Farm Rd.
Raleigh, NC
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Telephone: 919-387-5980
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Park West Village hosts Winter Wonderland in the District. This year’s event will take place the weekend of November 17th. Take the family to enjoy train rides, magical winter lights, live...

Cost: Free; $5 donation for sledding

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Park West Village
3400 Village Market Place
Morrisville, NC  27560
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Telephone: 919-234-6710
Contact Name: Conner Dixon
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See ponies, hunters and jumpers compete in an event that benefits Duke Children's Hospital. Visit the website for hours and fees.

Cost: See website for fees

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Gov. James B. Hunt Horse Complex
4601 Trinity Rd.
Raleigh, NC
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Saint Raphael Preschool
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Raleigh, NC  27615
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Sponsor: St. Raphael Preschool
Telephone: 919-865-5725
Contact Name: Sarah Rapp
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Make crafts celebrating turkeys. All ages with adult. Meet at the Cardinal Shelter. Registration not required. 

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Crowder District Park
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Contact Name: Sarah Rapp
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Cost: Free

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Read With Me Book Shop
111 E. Hargett St., $110
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Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Rd.
Raleigh, AL
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Cost: $7-$10

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Sky Zone Durham
1720 Guess Rd., Ste. 90
Durham, NC  27701
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Children ages 18 months-4 years and their parents enjoy free creative movement and music classes. The creative movement class focuses on the development of gross motor skills and...

Cost: Free

Where:
Saint Raphael Preschool
5801 Falls of Neuse Rd.
Raleigh, NC  27615
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Sponsor: St. Raphael Preschool
Telephone: 919-865-5725
Contact Name: Sarah Rapp
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Explore the woods and shoreline for signs of nature and collect treasures to make a craft. Take a full water bottle, snack and a bag lunch. Ages 6-11. Meet at the Cypress Shelter. Advance...

Cost: $16/child

Where:
Harris Lake County Park
2112 County Park Dr.
New Hill, NC  27562
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Sponsor: Harris Lake County Park
Telephone: 919-387-4342
Contact Name: Jackie Trickel
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Kids ages 6 and younger enjoy stories. Take part in an optional arts and crafts session after storytime for $5.

Cost: Free

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Read With Me Book Shop
111 E. Hargett St., $110
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Listen for the sound of silver bells and climb aboard in your pajamas for a first-class journey on the Polar Express. Come early to meet Santa and enjoy kid-friendly activities and a traditional...

Cost: $14-$29

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Meymandi Concert Hall
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Cost: Call for fees

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Little Guru Kids Yoga and Creative Arts
215 Glenwood Avenue, Suite A
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Cost: Free

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Saint Raphael Preschool
5801 Falls of Neuse Rd.
Raleigh, NC  27615
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Telephone: 919-865-5725
Contact Name: Sarah Rapp
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Celebrate what you're thankful for. Play a game and make a pine cone turkey craft. All ages with adult. Drop-in program. Registration not required.

Cost: Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Rd.
Raleigh, NC
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Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Shop more than 20 local vendors offering amazing gifts this holiday season. Enjoy daily raffles with proceeds benefiting local animal rescue Paws in the City. Kids can enjoy crafts...

Cost: Free

Where:
Cary Crossroads
333 Crossroads Blvd
Cary, NC  27518
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Children ages 18 months-4 years and their parents enjoy free creative movement and music classes. The creative movement class focuses on the development of gross motor skills and...

Cost: Free

Where:
Saint Raphael Preschool
5801 Falls of Neuse Rd.
Raleigh, NC  27615
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Sponsor: St. Raphael Preschool
Telephone: 919-865-5725
Contact Name: Sarah Rapp
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A wonderfully kid-paced hour featuring music, play and dancing with toddler stars singing on the mic at Cotton's gently amplified & participatory music show. Children delight in...

Cost: Free with admission

Where:
Pump It Up Raleigh
10700 World Trade Blvd, #112
Raleigh, NC  27617
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Sponsor: Pump it Up
Telephone: 919-828-3344
Contact Name: Owner/manager Kellie Paterson McHugh
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Read the story by Karma Wilson and make a Thanksgiving-themed craft. All ages. Registration not required.

Cost: Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Rd.
Raleigh, AL
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Telephone: 919-856-6675
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See a contemporary re-imagination of Tchaikovky's timeless music. Purchase tickets online.

Cost: $35-$55

Where:
Durham Performing Arts Center
123 Vivian St.
Durham, NC  27701
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See the classic holiday story brought to life onstage featuring favorite characters Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and...

Cost: $15 and up

Where:
Fletcher Theater
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Website »

More information

See the classic holiday story brought to life onstage featuring favorite characters Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and...

Cost: $15 and up

Where:
Fletcher Theater
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Website »

More information

See a contemporary re-imagination of Tchaikovky's timeless music. Purchase tickets online.

Cost: $35-$55

Where:
Durham Performing Arts Center
123 Vivian St.
Durham, NC  27701
View map »


Website »

More information

Catch this comedy classic on the big screen—as the symphony plays the charming and delightful score by John Williams live. Purchase tickets online.

Cost: $14-$29

Where:
Meymandi Concert Hall
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Fit & Able Productions presents the Turkey Chase trail festival at Umstead Park. Take part in a 5K, 10K or 20K. After the race, enjoy fruit, brownies and other...

Cost: $25-$45

Where:
Umstead Park
8801 Glenwood Ave.
Raleigh, NC  27617
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Sponsor: Fit and Able Productions
Telephone: 919-673-4689
Contact Name: Travis
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Celebrate what you're thankful for. Play a game and make a pine cone turkey craft. All ages with adult. Drop-in program. Registration not required.

Cost: Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Rd.
Raleigh, NC
View map »


Telephone: 919-856-6675
Website »

More information

Toddler Time is a special time for ages 5 and younger to bounce under the supervision of their parents, and without interference from the big kids. Purchase tickets online.

Cost: $7-$10

Where:
Sky Zone Durham
1720 Guess Rd., Ste. 90
Durham, NC  27701
View map »


Website »

More information

Shop more than 20 local vendors offering amazing gifts this holiday season. Enjoy daily raffles with proceeds benefiting local animal rescue Paws in the City. Kids can enjoy crafts...

Cost: Free

Where:
Cary Crossroads
333 Crossroads Blvd
Cary, NC  27518
View map »


Website »

More information

The Raleigh Boychoir makes an appearance before its big Christmas concert.

Cost: Free

Where:
Quail Ridge Books
4209-100 Lassiter Mill Rd.
Raleigh, NC  27609
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Website »

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Kids ages 6 and younger enjoy stories. Take part in an optional arts and crafts session after storytime for $5.

Cost: Free

Where:
Read With Me Book Shop
111 E. Hargett St., $110
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Website »

More information

See the classic holiday story brought to life onstage featuring favorite characters Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and...

Cost: $15 and up

Where:
Fletcher Theater
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Website »

More information

Take a 30-minute tour to view the main power drive and milling machinery. Tickets available inside the park's visitor center. Online registration encouraged.

Cost: $5/adult, $3 ages 7-16. Free for ages 6 and younger

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Rd.
Raleigh, NC
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Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Explore the historic nature of Leigh Farm Park with a friendly guide. Venture inside the historic farmhouse while being captivated by tales about life at Leigh Farm throughout the years.

Cost: Free

Where:
Leigh Farm Park
370 Leigh Farm Rd.
Durham, NC  27707
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Sponsor: Durham Parks and Recreation
Telephone: 919-560-1116
Contact Name: Natalya Buckel
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See the classic holiday story brought to life onstage featuring favorite characters Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and...

Cost: $15 and up

Where:
Fletcher Theater
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
View map »


Website »

More information

Catch this comedy classic on the big screen—as the symphony plays the charming and delightful score by John Williams live. Purchase tickets online.

Cost: $14-$29

Where:
Meymandi Concert Hall
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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