My Summer Stories: Laughter Dropped By


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It was a wonderful summer day! My friends and I had met at a local restaurant to eat lunch. And we all know when friends come together Laughter soon shows up invited or not. Nothing out of the ordinary. We sat down for lunch and as I expected, Laughter met us there. During a break from all of our eating and laughing I said to one friend who happened to be a nurse. "I was at my dad's house yesterday and he kept sliding over."

"What do you mean?" she asked.

"I'm not sure, but will you come with me to take a look at him?"

"Sure."

We gathered our belongings and headed for the door. We jumped in the car and headed down the road to my dad's house. Laughter hitched a ride with us. Still talking and laughing the entire trip. However, laughter took a back seat when, as we approached my father's house, there with lights whirling and sirens blasting sat three rescue squads. As I tried to jump out of a moving car that was not going fast enough for me, my other friend who was in the backseat grabbed me and held on to me for dear life. Pulling into the driveway my feet hit the ground before the car stopped. It was the longest run for such a short distance I had ever made.

Entering the front door, there on the floor was my dad! People pumping his chest. My friend the nurse walked in and turned around and left. I knew what that meant. He was gone. I ran outside dropping to my knees, screamming and crying! While at that very moment, my son who was at school burst into tears to the point of no one being able to console him. (I later learned this from his teacher who told me after I shared with her my father had died). She said, "that's amazing ... he felt your pain."

In the days that followed, I didn't tell my son that his grandfather had died. He was the only grandson at the time and was, as far as my dad was concerned, "the heir to the throne." I didn't know how to tell him and everytime I thought about doing it, I burst into tears. The day of the funeral arrived and still I had not said a word. After my tearful shower, I mustered every ounce of courage I had and asked God to help me.

I called my son to come into the room. He sat down on the bed and I said, "Grandpa went to heaven to be with Jesus. He looked at me with those huge brown eyes. I felt my strengh begin to be tested. God said, "Go get a shoe box with a lid on it." A shoe box I thought, for what? As I told my son how grandpa had gone to heaven to be with Jesus it was as though I was no longer talking. I took the shoe box and begin to describe the funeral and the casket which would look like this, a shoe box with a lid. I heard myself say, "And then after we all have said our goodbyes, yhey'll close the casket." And I demonstrated on the shoe box. ("God, you're so creative," I thought.)

I took a deep breathe and waited for tears from my son. He blinked. Silence. I said, "Do you have any questions?" He said, "Yes." "What is it?" I asked as I took a deep breathe. He said, "How are they gonna get Grandpa in this shoe box?" I burst into laughter with tears streamming down my face! Laughter had dropped by without calling and that was alright with me! My heart took flight with joy knowing that my son, my father and I all had been and would continue to well taken care by God and by my good friend, Laughter!
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August 2019

Take part in a class that teaches individualized ways to foster motor development for your child. Learn about tummy time alternatives, best positions for your baby, how to help your child learn to...

Cost: 24.00

Where:
Open Arts
1222 Copeland Oaks Dr.
Morrisville, NC  27560
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Sponsor: Babies On The MOVE
Contact Name: Rebecca Quinones
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Join Mindful Families of Durham, a Buddhist-inspired spiritual community that supports area parents, caregivers, and their children in the practice of mindfulness and the understanding of the...

Cost: Free

Where:
Erwin Road
Durham, NC  27705
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Sponsor: Mindful Families of Durham
Contact Name: Adam, Laura, Josh, Sumi
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Take part in a class that teaches individualized ways to foster motor development for your child. Learn about carry positions, best positions for your baby, how to help your child learn to crawl,...

Cost: 24.00

Where:
Open Arts
1222 Copeland Oaks Dr.
Morrisville, NC  27560
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Ages 18 months-5 years with special needs enjoy educational and therapeutic toys with caregiver. 

Cost: Free

Where:
Flaherty Park Community Center
1226 N. White St.
Wake Forest, NC  27587
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Experience the vibrant Latin American culture through music, entertainment, arts and food. Enjoy dancing, music, authentic Latino food, kids’ activities and much more. A two-hour outdoor...

Cost: Free

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West Weaver Street
Carrboro, NC  27510


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Hundreds of artisans from across the Southeast, festival foods, demonstrations, a kids' play area and live music highlight the town's signature arts and...

Cost: Free

Where:
Town Hall Campus
316 N. Academy St.
Cary, NC  27513
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Geocaching is a treasure hunt where participants use GPS coordinates to track down hidden "caches." We will learn how to use traditional GPS units and the Geocaching App (by Groundspeak) and then...

Cost: Free

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Harris Lake County Park
2112 County Park Dr.
New Hill, NC  27562
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Sponsor: Harris Lake County Park
Telephone: 919-387-4342
Contact Name: Joanne St. Clair
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Discover Historic Yates Mill—a place of business, community, and exciting local history! Watch a brief slideshow, then explore the inner workings of the mill itself and witness the power of...

Cost: $5/Adult, 4$/Senior (60+), $3/Child (7-16), 6&Younger Free

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Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Road
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Ages 18 months-5 years with special needs enjoy educational and therapeutic toys with caregiver. 

Cost: Free

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Flaherty Park Community Center
1226 N. White St.
Wake Forest, NC  27587
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Ages 11 and older with disabilities make spaghetti, meatballs and a salad. Register online. Choose course #1247467.

Cost: $19/resident, $24/nonresident

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Herbert C. Young Community Center
101 Wilkinson Ave.
Cary, NC  27513
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Cost: FREE

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Lake Crabtree County Park
1400 Aviation Pkwy.
Morrisville, NC  27560
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Sponsor: Lake Crabtree County Park
Telephone: 919-460-3355
Contact Name: Carol Cunningham
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Kids hike, make projects and engage in nature activities. Ages 5-8. Register online. Choose course #124969.

Cost: $9/resident, $12/nonresident

Where:
Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs
2616 Kildaire Farm Rd.
Cary, NC  27518
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Ages 18 months-5 years with special needs enjoy educational and therapeutic toys with caregiver. 

Cost: Free

Where:
Flaherty Park Community Center
1226 N. White St.
Wake Forest, NC  27587
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Cost: Free with registration

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SnickerDoodles
3721 Lynn Road
Raleigh, NC
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Sponsor: Unexpected NC
Telephone: 99-717-7298
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Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Road
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Sponsor: Historic Yates Mill County Park
Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Ages 18 months-5 years with special needs enjoy educational and therapeutic toys with caregiver. 

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Flaherty Park Community Center
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Cost: Free

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Learning Express Falls Pointe
9660 Falls of Neuse Rd
#130
Raleigh, NC  27615
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Sponsor: Learning Express Falls Pointe
Telephone: 919-325-6057
Contact Name: Stephanie Gillespie
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Cost: Free

Where:
IngenuiTea Kombucha Coffee & Tea
514 E Williams St
APEX, NC  27502
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Sponsor: IngenuiTea Brews
Telephone: 919-438-3684
Contact Name: Mark Poole
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Read the story by Laura Numeroff and make brownies. Register online. Choose course #124737.

Cost: $23/resident, $30/nonresident

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101 Wilkinson Ave.
Cary, NC
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Cost: Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Road
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Sponsor: Historic Yates Mill County Park
Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Cost: $2 members, $5 nonmembers

Where:
NC Museum of Natural Sciences
11 W. Jones St.
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Raleigh, NC  27601
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Cost: $30-$40/person for race

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Hill Ridge Farms
703 Tarboro Rd.
Youngsville, NC  27596
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Cost: Free

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Durham Central Park
501 Foster St.
Durham, NC  27701
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Cost: Free

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Downtown Raleigh
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Want to get inside Historic Yates Mill? Join us for a half-hour tour (starting at 1:00, 1:30, 2:00, 2:30 & 3:00 p.m.) to view the main power drive and milling machinery while exploring the...

Cost: $5/Adult, 4$/Senior (60+), $3/Child (7-16), 6&Younger Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Road
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Sponsor: Historic Yates Mill County Park
Telephone: 919-856-6675
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East Cloud Kungfu hosts a Parent's Night Out event, featuring a safe environment for kids as they about the wide world of kungfu.   Check it out!...

Cost: $25 first child, $20 each additional child

Where:
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5655-A Western Blvd
Raleigh, NC  27606
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Sponsor: East Cloud Kungfu, LLC
Telephone: 252-646-7053
Contact Name: Imari Colon
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Enjoy a charity radio controlled model flying event and fundraiser benefiting Meg's Smile Foundation. See all sizes/types of electric radio controlled aircraft and watch a drone...

Cost: Free

Where:
Sugg Farm at Bass Lake Park
2401 Grigsby Avenue
Holly Springs, NC  27540
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Sponsor: Holly Springs Skyhawks RC Group
Telephone: 919-270-8467
Contact Name: Doug LeRoy
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