Is Your Child Ready to Be in a Wedding?


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When I was 4 years old, I was the flower girl in my uncle's wedding. However, when my youngest daughter, Annie, was 4, I wouldn't allow her to do the same. Why was being a flower girl OK for me but not for my daughter? Two words — different personalities. For Annie, being a flower girl would probably equal disaster. I was a mild-mannered child; Annie is anything but. She is as high-energy as Tigger and as accident prone as Pooh.

 

Before Annie had turned 4, she'd been to the emergency room twice for stitches and had banged herself up pretty good on other occasions, fortunately with no long-lasting negative effects. As my husband and I pondered whether or not Annie should be in our friend's wedding, all we could envision was her running around instead of calmly walking down the aisle or playing catch with the rose petals. We were also afraid that because of her antics she would trip, land face-first on the floor and knock out some teeth.

Besides our concern for our daughter's well-being, we figured Annie's activity level was exactly what our friend, the bride, didn't need at her wedding. There was one more reason we decided to decline the offer: Since our older daughter was not invited to be in the wedding, having Annie participate would have left us in an awkward position.

Has your child been asked to be in someone's wedding? Or do you think he or she might be in the near future? If so, consider the following questions, along with the potential expense of an outfit, before saying "I do" to your child acting as a flower girl, ring bearer or junior bridesmaid.

Does the task suit your child's personality?

While I touched on this topic with our decision for Annie, other personality types may not be a good fit for a wedding party. A would-be wallflower would probably find walking down the aisle alone at a wedding as scary as the imaginary monsters in her closet, says Shelly Lindauer, Ph.D., an associate professor of family and human development at Utah State University. A child who doesn't take direction well probably won't follow the wedding planner's instructions, and the bride could end up with a temper tantrum on her hands.

Children can be cute and entertaining, but are always unpredictable, says Kathy Moore, a certified wedding planner in Wake County who works independently and with The Hall and Gardens at Landmark in Garner. If a wedding is less formal and the bride is willing to accept whatever happens, young children can be a delightful addition, she adds.

Will being in the wedding be a positive experience for your child?

If you have a precocious 6-year-old who has no problem in social settings, then she'll probably have a great time being in a wedding. On the other hand, if your son is a bit of a klutz, being expected to hold the wedding bands on a little pillow for the entire ceremony may be too much pressure for the little tyke to take. (Likewise, if a preteen or teenager is self-conscious of her body, having to wear a dress that someone else has picked out for her could be a recipe for disaster.)

As a wedding planner, Moore stresses practicing with children, and then practicing some more. After that, relax and just enjoy whatever happens.

Will you or your spouse be in the wedding as well?

If a parent is in the wedding party, he could walk a ring bearer with sudden stage fright to his post or stand beside him in front of the altar. Having a parent in the ceremony may help a child be less apprehensive, Moore says, but the child is more likely to end up being held by mom or dad which then distracts the parent. She once had a ring bearer fall asleep on his dad's shoulder.

With an older child, you can always ask to be seated close to the front, where your son or daughter can see you, your proximity can help calm potential fears.

Funny thing about Annie is that three years after our friend's wedding, my cousin Cara asked to have both of my daughters be in her wedding, my elder daughter Jane as a junior bridesmaid and Annie as the "bubble" girl. This time we said, "Yes," and we're so glad that we did. Annie was more mature, and having her sister nearby made the experience less scary for both girls. Jane did a beautiful job holding Cara's train, and Annie took her job as bubble girl very seriously, making sure to stop at each aisle to blow bubbles along with kisses to guests seated nearby. To this day, she still talks about how much fun it was to be in Cara's wedding, and that's exactly the kind of experience we wanted her to have.  n

Writer Leah Ingram is the author of 12 books on weddings, gifts and etiquette, including Tie the Knot on a Shoestring (Alpha Books, 2007).

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Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: Kelly
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Calling all Black tech leaders and visionaries! Are you looking to spur future collaborations, discover new business and career opportunities, and invest in this community? Join us for T.H.E. State...

Cost: Varies

Where:
Durham Convention Center
301 W Morgan St
Durham, NC  27701
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Contact Name: Tarryn Henry
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Kindermusik is a research-based early childhood curriculum that includes 45-minute classroom lessons with materials and resources that encourages parental involvement . Research has linked...

Cost: $70/month

Where:
Hope Community Building
2080 E Williams St
Hope Community Building, Fuquay Varina Room
Apex/Holly Springs, NC  27539
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Telephone: 191-990-25432
Contact Name: Leigh Hamm
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Live online classes for kids - FREE! Kids and families can join our online classes from home while school is out. Our special guests teach kids about art, medicine, music, cooking, science and...

Cost: Free

Where:
Online at your Home
265 Cambridge Ave #60923
Palo Alto, NC  94306
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Sponsor: ActivityHero
Telephone: 800-437-6125
Contact Name: Mabelle
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Sign up for a Raleigh scavenger hunt and put on your best Nick Cage impression as you seek out the national treasures hidden in Raleigh. Via an app, be guided through the cultural, historical,...

Cost: See website for fees

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
500 S. Salisbury St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Sponsor: LetsRoam!
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: LetsRoam!
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The 16th Annual (Virtual) Beaver Queen Pageant, Beavers in the Stream! The Beaver Queen Pageant is the Triangle’s own special mix of folly, pageantry, and humor. Contestants take on beaver...

Cost: free

Where:
Online
, NC


Sponsor: Ellerbe Creek Watershed Association
Telephone: 919-423-1502
Contact Name: Rachel Cohn
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We invite all Triangle youth between the ages of 8 thru 17 with a sincere interest in the Performance Art of Magic to join Magic Youth Raleigh! This youth program teaches magic history and theory,...

Cost: $35 per Student

Where:
New Horizons Fellowship
820 E. Williams St.
Apex, NC  27502
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Sponsor: The International Brotherhood of Magicians
Contact Name: Roger Way
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The Beaver Queen Pageant is the Triangle’s own special mix of folly, pageantry, and humor. Contestants take on beaver personalities and compete for the title of Beaver Queen with their fashion,...

Cost: free

Where:
Online
, NC


Sponsor: Ellerbe Creek Watershed Association
Telephone: 919-698-9729
Contact Name: Rachel Cohn
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River Jam at the U.S. National Whitewater Center brings together live musical performances throughout the year to a one-of-a-kind outdoor venue, right in the middle of the world’s largest...

Cost: $6

Where:
USNWC
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy
Charlotte, NC  28214
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Sponsor: USNWC
Telephone: 704-391-3900
Contact Name: Jenny Hill
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