Flying Solo


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More than a million children will fly alone this year, with the majority flying during the summer. Most children travel to visit noncustodial parents, relatives or to attend residential camps. Nearly 100,000 unaccompanied minors traveled with U.S. Airways in 2007, and Northwest Airlines transported 146,000 children last year. Flying alone is both exciting and scary, but with some preparation and advice, it can be a great experience. Here’s what you should know to prepare your child (and yourself) for her first solo flight. Airline policies In general, children younger than 5 are not allowed to travel unaccompanied. Children ages 5 to 7 may fly alone, but only on nonstop flights with the exception of Delta, which allows connections. Youth ages 8 to 14 can take connecting flights on the same airline. To make sure kids arrive safely, airlines offer an unaccompanied minor program. The service is required for children younger than 15, but it can be requested for young adults ages 15 to 17 on most airlines. Preparing for the trip If possible, take your child to the airport before her first time flying alone. Information is the key to helping her feel confident. Show her the security checkpoint, explain what will happen and point out uniformed personnel from the airline she’s booked on. Watch planes take off and land. Also go over common concerns she might have while in the air. For example, when is it okay to leave your seat and go to the bathroom? Where is the motion sickness bag? What is turbulence? Get your child excited about the journey. Give an older child a camera and a list of items to find and photograph for a photo safari. Or have him describe the details of his trip in a fun, colorful journal. Be upbeat and positive, and make it seem like an adventure. What to pack Create an information packet for your child that includes all flight information, contact information for yourself and the person picking up your child, and emergency numbers in case you can’t be reached. “Make sure they have plenty to occupy them, and make them hit the bathroom before the flight,” recommends Kia Slade, a Raleigh mom whose daughter, Lindsay, first flew solo to visit her grandparents when she was 7. Pack a carry-on with snacks, quiet toys, books and crayons. Give your child a small amount of cash so he can purchase some food at the airport or during the flight. “We recommend that the child have a cell phone with them while traveling, just in case,” says Darcy Grimes, manager of travel marketing for AAA Carolinas. “We have had children who were not met on their connection, and we were able to walk them through the connecting process this way via phone.” Prepare for the unexpected The recent deluge of flight cancellations has many parents wondering what happens when a child is stranded alone. If the departing flight is delayed or cancelled, the airline will help you make arrangements for a later flight, and you will need to remain with your child until takeoff. If a delay or cancellation occurs en route, airline personnel will stay with your child while they book another flight. “We have staff who provide continuous supervision,” says Michelle Aguayo-Shannon, media relations manager for Northwest Airlines. “During this time, we're in contact with the parent or guardian at the destination regarding changes in flight plans, and we consult with them prior to making any arrangements.” In rare cases, such as in a major snowstorm, a child may need to stay overnight. Most airlines will assign an airline employee of the same sex to supervise your child at a hotel, while a few airlines will turn your child over to the local welfare agency for the night. To avoid overnight issues, try to book the first flight of the day to provide plenty of time to arrange a same-day alternative flight if necessary. At the airport All airlines require you to fill out an unaccompanied minor form at check-in with your contact information and the contact information for the person picking up your child. Airlines only will release your child to this individual, who needs to arrive at least 30 minutes early, show proper identification and sign a release form. “Parents may request security passes from the airline counter so they may accompany the child through security to the gate and wait with them until boarding/take off,” Grimes says. “The same is true when picking up.” Once you reach the gate and the plane is ready, “the gate agent specially delivers the child to the lead flight attendant,” says U.S. Airways representative Michelle Mohr. “The lead attendant lets the rest of the flight attendant team know there is an unaccompanied minor and where the child is seated. When the child arrives [at the destination], she’s escorted by the flight attendants to the gate agent.” Your child will get to board first. “The extra time allows our flight attendants to personally speak with the child to discuss safety and other features of the plane,” says Kelly Cripe, a public relations specialist for Continental. You’ll need to wait at the gate until the plane departs. While it might be hard to part with your child before her first flight, don’t worry too much, says former Southwest flight attendant Andrea Leckie, whose son has flown alone since he was 7. “It's important for parents to remember that 99 percent of the time, as soon as their child is seated on the plane, the tears seem to disappear,” she says. “I found that the kids really enjoyed their grown-up experience of flying alone. They loved being able to select their very own beverage from the soft drink menu!” Kyla Steinkraus flew for the first time when she was 15 — alone. She is the founder of the family travel Web site www.ToddlerTravelGuide.com. What You’ll Pay Here are one-way unaccompanied-minor fees for five popular airlines servicing the Raleigh-Durham International Airport: Continental Nonstop: $75 Connecting: $100 Delta All flights: $100 American Airlines All flights: $75 Northwest Nonstop: $50 Connecting: $100 U.S. Airways All flights: $50
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Historic Yates Mill County Park
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Historic Yates Mill County Park
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Erwin Road
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Flaherty Park Community Center
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Historic Yates Mill County Park
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Durham Performing Arts Center
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Bach to Rock Music School
9587 US 64
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Flaherty Park Community Center
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Cost: $35/resident, $46/nonresident

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101 Wilkinson Ave.
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Bach to Rock Music School
9587 US 64
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Locopops Dessert Cafe
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Crowder County Park
4709 Ten-Ten Road
Apex, NC  27539
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Telephone: 919-662-2850
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Cost: Free

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Harris Lake County Park
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Flaherty Park Community Center
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9660 Falls of Neuse Rd
#130
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Cost: Free

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514 E Williams St
APEX, NC  27502
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Cost: $9/resident, $12/nonresident

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Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs
2616 Kildaire Farm Rd.
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Flaherty Park Community Center
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Cost: Free

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Orange County Main Library
137 W. Margaret Ln.
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Telephone: 919-245-2539
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307 S Roxboro St
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Cost: Free

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GREGG MUSEUM OF ART & DESIGN
1903 Hillsborough Street
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Cost: Free

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Learning Express Falls Pointe
9660 Falls of Neuse Rd
#130
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Kids spend a night out in nature making memories and new friends in an old-fashioned, camp-style program. Ages 8-12. Register online. Choose course #124903.

Cost: $15/resident, $19/nonresident

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Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs
2616 Kildaire Farm Rd.
Raleigh, NC
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Take the family for a night of jigs, reels and anything Celtic. 

Cost: $3/person

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Carrboro Century Center
100 N. Greensboro St.
Carrboro, NC  27510
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Shop for local handmade arts and crafts from local vendors. 

Cost: Free

Where:
Durham Central Park
501 Foster St.
Durham, NC  27701
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The North Carolina Boys Choir and Girls Choir Half-Day Camp and Music Workshop is open to public (all children in our community between 7 and 14 years of age). Register online. ...

Cost: Free

Where:
Binkley Baptist Church
1712 Willow Dr
Chapel Hill, NC  27514
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Sponsor: North Carolina Boys Choir and Girls Choir
Telephone: 919-239-9083
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Hundreds of artisans from across the Southeast, festival foods, demonstrations, a kids' play area and live music highlight the town's signature arts and...

Cost: Free

Where:
Town Hall Campus
316 N. Academy St.
Cary, NC  27513
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Learn basic canoeing skills and a bit about the millpond's history, then head out to explore the pond's many features as seen only from the water. Canoes, paddles, and life jackets are...

Cost: Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Road
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Cost: Free

Where:
Leigh Farm Park
370 Leigh Farm Rd.
Durham, NC  27707
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Cost: Free

Where:
Duke Homestead
2828 Duke Homestead Rd.
Durham, NC  27705
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Celebrate North Carolina farming culture and history at Duke Homestead. Don't miss the looping contest and Hornworm Race. This event features live music, local arts and crafts vendors, hands-on...

Cost: Free

Where:
Duke Homestead
2828 Duke Homestead Rd.
Durham, NC  27705
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Personality Festival is a Roxboro tradition. Enjoy amusements rides along Main Street, food vendors, singers, dancers, craft and merchandise vendors, local businesses and more. 

Cost: Free

Where:
Uptown Roxboro
211 N. Main St.
Roxboro, NC  27573
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Sponsor: Roxboro Area Chamber of Commerce
Telephone: 336-599-8333
Contact Name: Melissa
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Ages 18 months-5 years with special needs enjoy educational and therapeutic toys with caregiver. 

Cost: Free

Where:
Flaherty Park Community Center
1226 N. White St.
Wake Forest, NC  27587
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Website »

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Learn basic canoeing skills and a bit about the millpond's history, then head out to explore the pond's many features as seen only from the water. Canoes, paddles, and life jackets are...

Cost: Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Road
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Sponsor: Historic Yates Mill County Park
Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Cost: Free

Where:
Artspace
201 E. Davie St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Want to get inside Historic Yates Mill? Join us for a half-hour tour (starting at 1:00, 1:30, 2:00, 2:30 & 3:00 p.m.) to view the main power drive and milling machinery while exploring the...

Cost: $5/Adult, 4$/Senior (60+), $3/Child (7-16), 6&Younger Free

Where:
Historic Yates Mill County Park
4620 Lake Wheeler Road
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Sponsor: Historic Yates Mill County Park
Telephone: 919-856-6675
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Cost: Free

Where:
Learning Express Falls Pointe
9660 Falls of Neuse Rd
#130
Raleigh, NC  27615
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Sponsor: Learning Express Falls Pointe
Telephone: 919-325-6057
Contact Name: Stephanie Gillespie
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Cost: $8/resident, $10/nonresident

Where:
Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs
2616 Kildaire Farm Rd.
Cary, NC
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Telephone: 919-387-5980
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Cost: Free

Where:
Clayton Town Square
100 W. Main Street
Clayton, NC  27520
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Sponsor: First Baptist Church of Clayton and Horne Memorial UMC of Clayton
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Contact Name: Melissa Dooley
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Cost: $25 first child, $20 each additional child

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East Cloud Kungfu, LLC
5655-A Western Blvd
Raleigh, NC  27606
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Sponsor: East Cloud Kungfu, LLC
Telephone: 252-646-7053
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Cost: Free

Where:
North Carolina State University
Raleigh, NC  27607


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Cost: Free

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Downtown Raleigh
400 Fayetteville St.
Raleigh, NC
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