Breast Cancer Survivors Share Stories of Triumph


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No one knows exactly what causes breast cancer. Age, gender, lifetime exposure to estrogen, family history and other factors play a role, but the truth is, all women are  at risk.

Experts say maintaining a healthy weight, exercising and limiting alcohol intake reduces your risk - and if you are diagnosed, there's a good chance you will beat it. But when breast cancer strikes someone you love, none of that matters. The raw emotions you experience and conversations you have with your loved one consume everyday cares.

Two breast cancer survivors share memories of their diagnoses, treatment and triumph over this disease that affects one in eight women. More than anything else, they recall how their experiences brought them closer to the ones they love.

Vigilance, persistence led to diagnosis

Ellen Baker and her daughters, Sara and Katie, call the discussion about her breast cancer diagnosis "The Conversation on the Big Yellow Chair."

In January 2006, after years spent trying to avoid the disease, Baker learned that a lump in her breast was cancerous. She had already endured numerous previous biopsies. When the 58-year-old Raleigh resident's eldest daughter, Sara, was born in 1991, Baker found her first lump. It wasn't cancerous, but that launched a concerted effort to monitor her health with various tests every three months, just to be safe. Nobody was more vigilant than Baker.

Cancer was prevalent in her family history. "Both my parents died of cancer, my grandparents, just about everybody in my family, including the dog, died of cancer," Baker says. "Being vigilant was my life."

In 2005, after 40 biopsies in 14 years, Baker went to Duke University Health Center for a prophylactic mastectomy. She essentially had a breast reduction, Bakerexplains, removing the tissue that was causing concern. Then good news: She was told she had nothing to worry about.

But pain followed, and another lump, then a radiology screen, a sonogram, another biopsy.

"Then, of course, it was cancer. My mother-in-law was diagnosed the same day. My kids had to deal with that. It was devastating to the girls," she recalls.

Baker, Sara, then 15, and Katie, then 14, snuggled in the Big Yellow Chair where Baker shared her news.

"They cried. They were scared. To them, it meant death," Barker recalls. "Once they saw that I could handle it, that I was handling it, they were OK."

Baker says she tried to involve her daughters in her treatment and recovery. She tried to keep things light.

"I took them with me to get my wigs. I made dinner every night. I tried to keep everything as normal as possible for the girls. I went prom shopping for Sara's prom dress in a wheelchair. I didn't miss recitals or graduation," she says.

Support came in many forms for Baker. Her sister, Laura, was a rock. The entire family took advantage of the Cancer Navigator program at Duke, with professionals who help all family members find the resources they need. The Susan G. Komen Foundation local affiliate pointed Baker to help for herself and her family, including support services in the wake of a concurrent divorce. Through the website www.caringbridge.com, Baker shared her experiences with others facing the same challenge.

Baker still tries to keep things positive for her girls, now 22 and 21. Currently an executive coach in the Duke Fuqua School of Business MBA program, she is writing a book about her battle and the importance of being informed and positive.

Baker remains vigilant. "My goal is to live as long as I can because my daughters need me," she says.

Helping others provides a positive outlet

Three years ago, when she learned of her breast cancer diagnosis, Elizabeth Upchurch first shared the news with her eldest daughter, Meredith, 16.

"She got real teary-eyed and she didn't really understand what that meant. We had friends of the family who had cancer. In her mindset, anybody who has cancer dies," the Raleigh resident recalls. "She just kept looking at me with very sad eyes."

That night at the dinner table, twins Kathryn and Caroline, who were 12, sensed something wasn't right as they watched their sad sister and uncomfortable mother.

"So we all came together and talked about it. We sat on the bed and we held each other and we cried," Upchurch says.

Upchurch, however, felt confident about her chances of recovery. She believed everything would be OK, thanks to advances in research and the outstanding physicians she trusted to help her. With a great surgeon at Rex Healthcare and a wonderful oncologist at the Cancer Center of North Carolina, Upchurch felt she had the best care possible.

Her history of fibrocystic disease had prompted doctors to take extra care. She had previously undergone several biopsies, and each one had provided the green light she was seeking. Until the day a cyst turned out to be stage 2 breast cancer.

Upchurch explored her options. Because of her history, in April 2008, she had a double mastectomy and chemotherapy.

"Having three girls, my big thing was, I was worried about them. The twins were 12; they were in sixth grade. Meredith was in ninth grade. I had to tell them, 'Mom's kind of in a different place,'" she says.

Upchurch remembers how angry Meredith was, not the reaction she was expect-ing. But the anger was directed at the disease, not at mom. Her husband, Edward, reassured the girls that this was no one's fault. Nobody caused the cancer to happen.

Thanks to an amazing support system - good friends, parishioners, parents and in-laws - and Edward, Upchurch was able to stay positive.

Today, Upchurch, 51, volunteers for the Susan G. Komen Foundation local affiliate, educating women about the support available and sharing her personal experience. She, her girls and a large group of their friends also participate in the annual Race for the Cure.

One of the positive outcomes Upchurch notes is that her girls have been able to help friends whose families are facing a cancer diagnosis. She says it's therapeutic for them to feel they have helped someone else.

"All three (girls) have been able to be a strong shoulder of support for others. Each girl has a good friend whose mom has been diagnosed since my illness, and they have been able to share some of their experiences and help them to know some of what to expect," Upchurch says.

"Cancer affects the whole family, not just one individual. We all grieve and handle it in different manners. Hopefully we can all come through it on a positive note and be there for each other and those we have yet to meet," she says.

Several groups and organizations in the Triangle provide support, information and assistance to women who are diagnosed with breast cancer. For these resources, read Breast Cancer Support in the Triangle.

For more information on this topic, see Tips to Help Lower Your Breast Cancer Risk.

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Cost: $11

Where:
500 S Salisbury St
raleigh, NC  27601
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Sponsor: Let's Roam
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Amongst the ancient oak trees is the heart of Raleigh. We'll help you see the forest for the trees and all its magic splendor. Tourist, local, or new to town, this is a lively small group activity...

Cost: $11

Where:
Downtown
500 S Salisbury St
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Sponsor: Let's Roam
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: Kelly
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It's your last chance to catch the Wolfpack at home this season! Help RED OUT Duke by wearing your favorite RED NC State Gear to the meet. The first 300 fans will receive an exclusive RED OUT...

Cost: FREE

Where:
Willis R. Casey Aquatic Center
2611 Cates Ave.
Raleigh, NC  27695
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Kindermusik is a research-based early childhood curriculum that includes 45-minute classroom lessons with materials and resources that encourages parental involvement . Research has linked...

Cost: $70/month

Where:
Hope Community Building
2080 E Williams St
Hope Community Building, Fuquay Varina Room
Apex/Holly Springs, NC  27539
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Telephone: 191-990-25432
Contact Name: Leigh Hamm
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Preschoolers (ages 3-5 with an adult) learn what wild animals do in winter by pretending to be animals that hibernate, migrate or just stay warm in the cold, winter woods! Take a hike, do a craft,...

Cost: $3

Where:
Wilkerson Nature Preserve
5229 Awls Haven Drive
Raleigh, NC  27614
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Sponsor: City of Raleigh Parks, Recreation and Cultural Resources
Telephone: 919-996-6764
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Explore nature through play!  The Main Library is partnering with local Tinkergarten leaders Heather Murphy and Kate MacCartney to bring the fun of nature indoors.  Join us as we investigate...

Cost: Free

Where:
Orange County Main Library
137 W Margaret Ln
Hillsborough, NC  27278
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Sponsor: Orange County Public Library
Telephone: 919-245-2539
Contact Name: Libbie Hough
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January Story Time, Puppet Show & Art Activity Puppet Show Incorporated https://www.puppetshowinc.org/ presents the classic Aesop fable The Lion and the Mouse. Activities include a story time,...

Cost: FREE

Where:
Carrboro Library
900 Old Fayetteville Road
Inside McDougle Middle School
Chapel Hill, NC  27516
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Sponsor: Carrboro Branch Library
Telephone: 919-969-3006
Contact Name: Beth Hawkey
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Want a wild start to your new year?When you’re facing the after-holiday blues after packing up the decorations and taking down the tree, never fear. Come celebrate the new year in a thrilling,...

Cost: $20 - $26

Where:
Animal Park at the Conservators Center
676 E Hughes Mill Rd
Burlington, NC  27217
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Sponsor: Animal Park at the Conservators Center
Telephone: 336-421-0883
Contact Name: Taylor Sharp

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Sign up for a Raleigh scavenger hunt and put on your best Nick Cage impression as you seek out the national treasures hidden in Raleigh. Via an app, be guided through the cultural, historical,...

Cost: See website for fees

Where:
Downtown Raleigh
500 S. Salisbury St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Sponsor: LetsRoam!
Telephone: 833-202-7626
Contact Name: LetsRoam!
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Skate on an ice trail or free skate on 17,000 sq. ft of ice. Located in the Upper Pond of the Whitewater Center, the skating environment features three distinct programming areas and an on-ice...

Cost: 20

Where:
USNWC
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy
Charlotte, NC  28214
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Sponsor: USNWC
Telephone: 704-391-3900
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Lights is a half-mile walking trail that leads viewers through a series of immersive light installations featuring  honeycombs, vines, crystals, and other natural features integrated into the...

Cost: Free

Where:
USNWC
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy
Charlotte, NC  28214
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Sponsor: USNWC
Telephone: 704-391-3900
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Spanish Alive is providing Family Spanish classes starting in January! Join us to learn Spanish as an entire family in an immersive, fun environment. Our teachers are trained Spanish educators and...

Cost: $75-$216

Where:
Spanish Alive
156 E. Chatham St
Cary, NC
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Family Wildlife Series: Owl Prowl Saturday, January 18, 6-7:15 p.m. Venture into the night on a Blue Jay hike.  Learn about owl habits and adaptations as we listen for these nocturnal birds....

Cost: Free

Where:
Blue Jay Point County Park
3200 Pleasant Union Church Road
Raleigh, NC  27614
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Telephone: 919-870-4330
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