Blending Faiths, Families & Traditions


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Figuring out what traditions to carry on, or even which holidays to celebrate, can be a significant challenge for couples who come from different cultural or religious backgrounds, or those blending families through marriage. But it’s a challenge worth taking on.

Traditions help families feel like a unit, says Linda Cherney, a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in Chapel Hill. “People want to carry on the things of their past, to create continuity between generations,” she explains. “Traditions provide a place to have fun, create memories and forge a sense of belonging.”

If your family is facing this issue as the holiday season approaches, here are some tips from Cherney and four local couples who have been through the process.

What’s “right” depends on the family

The parents we spoke with describe varying degrees of blending or adapting traditions in light of different beliefs or backgrounds. For Rachel Ruvo of Pittsboro, combining her Jewish heritage with husband Andy’s Catholic background has meant embracing both faiths, worshipping at temple or church on holidays, and joining a fellowship that emphasizes respect for all spiritual practices.

Linda and Kevin Derricks of Cary have agreed to raise their 10-month-old twins in the Jewish faith while still celebrating Christian holidays with Kevin’s family. Seunghee Lee and Brad Mott of Apex nurture a connection to her native country by attending a Korean church and enrolling their son and daughter in programs that teach them about Korean culture.

The important thing in charting this path together, Cherney explains, is that spouses are respectful and supportive of one another’s beliefs and traditions, even if they choose to practice just one faith as a family.

It helps to have a plan

The couples discussed these matters prior to marrying, allowing them to cultivate traditions more deliberately. Both Linda and Kevin came from families that explored or even converted to other religions, so, Linda says, “It was a given that we would be open to one another’s beliefs and traditions.”

Rachel and Andy began their lives together by having both a priest and a rabbi officiate at their wedding. Theresa Menz and Seth Kullman of Chapel Hill sought couples counseling to work through differences in their backgrounds — she was raised a Catholic, he was a nonpracticing Jew — while creating a new family with her preteen son. The process wasn’t easy, Theresa says, but it helped them understand their own limits and determine how they could explore spirituality together.

Cherney emphasizes that communication is crucial, especially with blended families. And even if you’ve had these conversations before, she suggests touching base each holiday season to “trouble-shoot” potential problems caused by differences in beliefs, expectations or experiences. If the issue causes tension between spouses, she adds, “a few sessions of coaching with a professional may help.”

Be flexible

Even the best plans may require adjusting, because families change over time. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Theresa says that in the years since she and Seth married, “trust and experience have given us a basis for making plans as a family, so the boundaries we negotiated have relaxed. We have both moved beyond our initial comfort zones.”

They now enjoy exploring Jewish traditions together — something Seth had not done much, prior to their marriage — and even Theresa’s son has grown spiritually through sharing holidays with his stepfather.

Rachel points out that Thanksgiving has actually emerged as the family’s most valued holiday, despite all the hoopla over celebrating both Christmas and Hanukkah. “It’s a time to focus on thankfulness, friendship and family,” she explains. “We invite everyone from our circle to dinner and talk to our children about the importance of those connections.”

Keep it simple

Holidays can become a blur of activity as couples seek to make everything about their blended celebrations special. Rachel admits that she and Andy have often “scratched [their] heads at the calendar” while trying to schedule holiday activities. “For practicality’s sake,” she advises, “make the traditions easy to maintain. It only gets more complicated as the kids get older.”

Seunghee explains that “finding time to ensure we’re providing good coverage of both of our cultures” is their greatest challenge; as a result, she and Brad have agreed to explore a “subset” of traditions from each culture, celebrating some holidays in American fashion and others, such as the Korean New Year, in Korean fashion.

“Keep the list of family traditions shorter rather than longer,” Cherney suggests, “so that the ones you maintain are truly meaningful. If the holidays get too complicated, the memories might not be good ones.”

Be prepared for mixed reactions — even your own

Change can be difficult, and sometimes even willing partners feel a sense of loss over no longer doing things “their” way. As Rachel puts it, “The holidays don’t feel like they did when we were kids.”

Theresa notes that she and her son have put aside some aspects of their Christmas celebration out of respect for Seth’s feelings. For Linda, whose family drifted away from Judaism during her teen years, recommitting to her faith has brought regret that so few members of her family are practicing with her.

Linda is also trying to forgive herself for having forgotten many of the rituals she practiced as a child. “I’m basically starting from scratch with some of the customs of my faith,” she explains, “and I wish I had a more established community to support my sons as they learn and grow.”

In this respect, Cherney encourages parents to be patient and perhaps even lower their expectations. And if you’re in the first year of blending a family, be prepared for the possibility that older children may express reluctance or even resentment over trying new things.

Cherish the little moments

Cherney urges families experiencing this transition to enjoy “even the little moments that signify the beginning of that ‘family’ feel.”

Rachel recalls being “over the moon” when she first got to decorate the house for Christmas, and she admits she is usually the first one in the family to don a festive sweater. Linda is excited about the little Hanukkah sacks, decorated with Jewish symbols and filled with a gift for each night of the festival, that her mother is making for her infant sons. To her, it is nod of support for the Christmas stockings they will have at Kevin’s parents’ house.

For Theresa, memories of her first Hanukkah with Seth include the dish towels he ruined when he used them to squeeze liquid out of the potatoes he had shredded to make latkes. “One hazard of having an authentic cook,” she concludes with a smile.

Whatever path they have taken, these parents agree that open-mindedness and respect were crucial to developing meaningful customs in their family. They also note that the process has brought them closer to their partners. “It’s a continuous collaboration,” Linda concludes, “and a wonderful learning experience for everyone in the family.”

That’s a tradition all families can embrace.

Karen Lewis Taylor is a freelance writer and editor who lives in Apex with her husband and two daughters.

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Ziggy is a shy boy who would rather stay at home and watch television than explore the island of Jamaica. Over the course of his onstage journey, with some help from his friend Nansi, he...

Cost: $18/adult, $12 ages 12 and younger

Where:
Raleigh Little Theatre
301 Pogue St.
Raleigh, NC  27607
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Harris Lake County Park is home to several species of salamanders. Join us as we learn about these elusive amphibians and see some up close. All ages. Meet in the Educational Garden at the picnic...

Cost: Free

Where:
Harris Lake County Park
2112 County Park Dr.
New Hill, NC  27562
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Sponsor: Harris Lake County Park
Telephone: 919-387-4342
Contact Name: Joanne St. Clair
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Set in 1860’s Bangkok, the musical tells the story of the unconventional relationship that develops between the King of Siam and Anna Leonowens, a British schoolteacher whom the modernist...

Cost: $25 and up

Where:
Raleigh Memorial Auditorium
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Durham Stake presents a family-friendly show featuring favorite Dr. Seuss books all together in one story. Join the Cat in the Hat, Horton the Elephant, and many others on a journey through...

Cost: Free

Where:
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
1050 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd.
Chapel Hill, NC  27514
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Sponsor: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Contact Name: Bethany Fager
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The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is putting on the hilarious, yet sometimes tender, musical production of Seussical on March 15-16 and 22-23. It is a family-friendly show that...

Cost: Free

Where:
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
1050 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd
Chapel Hill, NC  27514
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Sponsor: Durham Stake of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
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The Raleigh Boychoir will reach new heights as our choristers and community present Dr. Tim Sharp’s “High Lonesome Bluegrass Mass.” Welcoming area boys to perform in...

Cost: Free

Where:
First Baptist Church
99 N Salisbury St
Raleigh, NC  27603
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Sponsor: Raleigh Boychoir
Telephone: 919-881-9259
Contact Name: Erin O'Hara
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Ziggy is a shy boy who would rather stay at home and watch television than explore the island of Jamaica. Over the course of his onstage journey, with some help from his friend Nansi, he...

Cost: $18/adult, $12 ages 12 and younger

Where:
Raleigh Little Theatre
301 Pogue St.
Raleigh, NC  27607
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Participants develop their naturalist skills and understanding of local nature. Ages 5-8 with parent. Register online. Choose course #121675.

Cost: $8/resident, $10/nonresident

Where:
Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs
2616 Kildaire Farm Rd.
Cary, NC
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Telephone: 919-387-5980
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Celtic Woman celebrates Ireland's rich musical and cultural heritage, while continuing its remarkable legacy of introducing some of Ireland's most talented singers and musicians onto the...

Cost: $43 and up

Where:
Durham Performing Arts Center
123 Vivian St.
Durham, NC  27701
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Set in 1860’s Bangkok, the musical tells the story of the unconventional relationship that develops between the King of Siam and Anna Leonowens, a British schoolteacher whom the modernist...

Cost: $25 and up

Where:
Raleigh Memorial Auditorium
2 E. South St.
Raleigh, NC  27601
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Shop for gently used kids' clothing, toys, furniture, baby equipment and more. See the website for shopping hours.

Cost: Free

Where:
Hayes Barton Baptist Church
1800 Glenwood Ave.
Raleigh, NC
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