5 Insights to Get You Through a Divorce


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None of us is immune and I’m here to prove it. Though I was trained and practiced as a marriage and family therapist, I have had my fair share of moments where it didn’t matter. It didn’t save me from the ick. And I’m grateful because those experiences have taught me the most.   

My ex-husband and I met in the UNC School of Social Work's doctoral program in Chapel Hill. We waited to marry (we were 30 years old). We planned long enough to have a child that I was labeled a geriatric mother (I was 35). And yet today, I am still the divorced mother of a 10-year-old daughter that he and I co-parent. What-are-ya-gonna-do?

“Wow, you and your ex-husband could be the poster couple for divorce.” “You guys inspired our divorce!” Yep, these statements have been said to me. And that is he and I today (well, most of the time), although nothing is perfect — even divorce, even for two shrinks. Here are some insights that got me through to the other side.


Respect Survival Mode

A close friend introduced the idea of “Survival Mode” to me during my separation when I was (yet, again) revisiting the facts, feelings and current state of our marital dissolution. I was deep in my feelings and in my head. She stopped me and said, “You know, you don’t have to do this to yourself. You’re in survival mode. Let’s save the therapeutic analysis for when you are not trying to just put one foot in front of the other and be a good mom.” Wait? What? I don’t have to do this to myself?

When someone is trying to survive in the desert, they don’t spend a lot of energy and brainpower on how they ended up there and how unfair it is. Instead, they focus on getting out — on surviving.  It was a very freeing for an over-analytical person like me to give myself the gift of giving myself a freaking break — and just get through now, this moment, today. There will be time for the post-mortem later.  And I did it, when I had the bandwidth to do it.

Take Off Your Spouse Hat

Stop viewing the world (including your ex’s actions) through the perspective of being that person’s spouse. You’re not anymore, so stop. When your ex does anything — the more you view that action as belonging to you via your spouse, the more likely it will do a number on you. 

The only hat you are allowed to wear is your parent hat. Period. You will be amazed by how much you can take off your plate once you make this one adjustment to your perspective. It is not your job to make your ex a better person, or at least not a jerk, in your eyes. You’re done. Not your problem. Off the hook. You only ask: How does this directly impact my kid and his or her relationship with my ex-spouse? And don’t try to warp the issue into being about your kid, when it’s really just about the spouse hat you’re still sporting. Hat off. And see how much better you breathe.

Bonus: the moment you stop acting like something bothers you is the moment it may stop happening, so stop taking the bait. That's a little secret I discovered ...

Don’t Wait for the Karma Train

You feel wronged. Treated badly. Undeservedly so. Yep. That sucks. Not fair. Stop screaming at the sky (all the time) and demanding the karma train to hurry up and get ’em. Because each day that you focus on thinking your ex is “getting away with it” or has “won” is another day you have wasted not getting your best life. Focus on you, your life. Things have a way of working out, but you are not in charge of the timeline. So deal. Go back to figuring out your new normal and living well.

Social Media Lives Forever

Don’t Vaguebook about your ex. Don’t outright hash it out publicly on social media. Your kids and lawyer will thank you. Seriously. Stop. It’s a bad look and your friends are cringing for you. 

You are a Teaching Tool

Remember, your kids are watching and learning important life lessons from you at this moment about how to be resilient, how to face disappointment (and reality), and how to conquer challenges — all needed life skills. It’s OK to show vulnerability, though they should also know perfection isn’t a realistic goal. Just be human with superhero tendencies.


Dr. Katherine Loflin is a divorced mom with a global consultancy. She is a North Carolina native living in Cary with her daughter. Learn more about her at city-doctor.com.

 

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Cost: $12-$27

Where:
Fletcher Theater, Duke Energy Center for the Performing Arts
2 E. South St.
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3400 Village Market Place
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Cost: $10/member, $20/nonmembers, $5 for children

Where:
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4415 Beryl Rd.
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